Other Stuff, a cabinet of curiosities, a fusion of science and ancient wisdom about life, happiness and wellbeing by 8 in the Universe including random musings about living life, being happier, fulfilled and all things to nourish our wellbeing.

Other Stuff

Random musings and interesting things we stumble across and want to share.

Love After Love

Love After Love

The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,

and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you

all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,

the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.

Derek Walcott

YouTube video – Derek Walcott tribute: Linton Kwesi Johnson reads Love After Love on BBC Newsnight 2017.

8 in the Universe, January 2020.

Love

8 in the Universe is created on a foundation of ‘8 Elements’, Nourish, Move, Rest, Learn, Love, Laugh, Gratitude and Contribute. Each stand alone but we believe together they create Alchemy, they become more than the sum of their parts, on which to build strategies for your own unique actions towards improved Health & Wellbeing.

Love, the fifth of 8 Elements created by Marian Connor that form the foundation upon which 8 in the Universe deliver strategies to improve health and wellbeing.

LOVE
exists
in many
forms.

The human experience is created from within. We are continually constructing our reality, which is greatly affected by the conversations we have with ourselves and the language we use, which in turn, affects our psychoneurological system, if we aren’t feeling the love and keep telling ourselves we are inadequate or ‘less than’, sure enough your body will believe you and behave accordingly, physically and psychologically.

If Love is the opposite of fear, it also encompasses Dignity, Honesty, Kindness and Forgiveness for everyone, including ourselves. When we struggle to show these considerations to ourselves it’s not exactly easy to genuinely share them with others.

One way to contribute to that nurturing of ourselves is by identifying some of our strengths, listen to that voice within, reminding you of the things you love to do, be it singing or crafting, gardening or juggling, then spend time with them and wherever possible, do more of it.

“Everyone should carefully observe which way his heart draws him and then, choose that way, with all his strength.”  Hasidic saying

Image and content by MAC, January 2020.

 

Learn

8 in the Universe is created on a foundation of ‘8 Elements’, Nourish, Move, Rest, Learn, Love, Laugh, Gratitude and Contribute. Each stand alone but we believe together they create Alchemy, they become more than the sum of their parts, on which to build strategies for your own unique actions towards  improved Health & Wellbeing.

Learn, the fourth of 8 Elements created by Marian Connor that form the foundation upon which 8 in the Universe deliver strategies to improve health and wellbeing.

LEARN
Life is a learning experience
which means
Its never too late to learn

Staying curious and continuing to discover the world and all those wonders it has to offer, has numerous benefits for our Health and Wellbeing.

Naturally we like to do the things we are practised at and competent in, but we can achieve a level of expertise in many new skills, let’s not forget almost all our skills were a novelty once, we weren’t born speaking and walking, cooking and driving, well at least I wasn’t.

Learning definitely requires effort, but when we focus on complex tasks and specific goals, that effort also creates neural pathways, assisting cognition and recall.

Maybe think about learning a new skill that has been on your ‘To Do’ list.
Or revisit something you enjoyed in the past but have lost along the way.

As a child I yearned for whistling skills, but try as he might, my poor patient Father never quite succeeded in teaching me, if you like me still hanker to whistle up a storm, this might help.

Enjoy.

YouTube – On this video Brett McKay shows you ‘How to Whistle with Your Fingers.’ 

Image and content by MAC, January 2020.

Rest

8 in the Universe is created on a foundation of ‘8 Elements’, Nourish, Move, Rest, Learn, Love, Laugh, Gratitude and Contribute. Each stand alone but we believe together they create Alchemy, they become more than the sum of their parts, on which to build strategies for your own unique actions towards  improved Health & Wellbeing.

Rest, the third of 8 Elements created by Marian Connor that form the foundation upon which 8 in the Universe deliver strategies to improve health and wellbeing.

REST
The constant
activity
taking place within our bodies
make it extremely important to pause.

When we sleep our bodies repair and regenerate cells, it affects endocrine function and the production of HGH which effects immune function.

Sleep allows us to subconsciously make sense of our day.

Doesn’t have to be long periods of sleep though to reap rewards, Our Mind and Body will benefit from restful interludes in the day, a short afternoon snooze was greatly favoured by Leonardo da Vinci, Einstein and Dali, I see the appeal and I think if it was good enough for them, who am I to argue.

Make space for mindful practises which can include meditation, which slows the heart rate, deepens our breath and increases oxygen uptake.

Mindful rest slows brain wave frequency and promotes Serotonin production which can help alleviate feelings of stress and anxiety.

This is not about turning your brain OFF If anything it allows your mind space to breath, greater opportunity to actually be present, to be ON.

We could all benefit by reminding ourselves to pause in the spaces between.

If you feel you could benefit from better quality REST. Get in contact. 

Content and Image by MAC, January 2020.

 

Move

8 in the Universe is created on a foundation of ‘8 Elements’, Nourish, Move, Rest, Learn, Love, Laugh, Gratitude and Contribute. Each stand alone but we believe together they create Alchemy, they become more than the sum of their parts, on which to build strategies for your own unique actions towards  improved Health & Wellbeing.

Move, the second of 8 Elements created by Marian Connor that form the foundation upon which 8 in the Universe deliver strategies to improve health and wellbeing.

Move 

Life is movement

a daily requirement for us

Physically and Mentally.

We experience linear movement through time, as we live life from birth to death.

Physically we move through the world, allowing us to function and survive, whilst answering our bodies ongoing need to be active.

Internal movement as our bodies perform a multitude of functions, including, muscular activity, for heart and lung function. Through cellular breakdown and renewal within bone, skin, muscular tissue, lymph and blood cells.

We move psychologically, if we endeavour to embrace the ongoing changes in our life, we can use them as a vehicle to help us through transitions at different stages of life.

Spiritually as life experience requires us to shift perceptions and seek our own truths.

Socially as we move outside our own world to look at other people’s stories and myths to recognise our universal humanity.

If we are going to be moving anyway, may as well discover how you can make it best work for you.

We can help with that. 

Content and Image by MAC, January 2020

 

Nourish

8 in the Universe is created on a foundation of ‘8 Elements’, Nourish, Move, Rest, Learn, Love, Laugh, Gratitude and Contribute. Each stand alone but we believe together they create Alchemy, they become more than the sum of their parts, on which to build strategies for your own unique actions towards  improved Health & Wellbeing.

Nourish, the first of 8 Elements created by Marian Connor that form the foundation upon which 8 in the Universe deliver strategies to improve health and wellbeing.

Nourish

through your senses,

colour, perfume, sound, texture.

Surround yourself with things you consider beautiful.

Enjoy a rich variety of food and liquid refreshments

NOURISH usually brings to mind things we consume, particularly at this time of year, when we often take draconian measures to rectify seasonal indulgences. Unfortunately, they rarely succeed.

January is not the most uplifting time of year to begin with, add to that, depriving yourself of pleasurable foods, feels like a recipe for disaster.

Perhaps it’s better to think about nourishing through addition or alternative choices rather than omission, through foods that nurture wellbeing, because we deserve it, rather than meagre calories to punish ourselves.

Foods that still allow us to socialise rather than creating a sad plate we wouldn’t want to inflict on dining companions.

Perhaps investigate healthier alternatives we might enjoy rather than the things we know can be damaging in excess.

And when we fall off the ‘New year, New you.’ wagon, and we will, be kind, you wouldn’t shout FAILURE at a friend, give yourself a break, you might be pleasantly surprised.

8 in the Universe take a playful approach to the business of life. What we do.

Content and image by MAC, January 2020.


Where have those Christmas posts gone? I hear you say.

We have put them up in the loft with the baubles and unused Christmas cards. 

We might dust them off and use them again but for now they are safely tucked away.